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About Tammy
Tammy Triolo brings clarity to emotionally charged spaces by holding up a mirror to the cost of disconnection. Through scorecards, storytelling, and public dialogue, her work challenges what has been normalized and creates space for deeper self-awareness. With experience across corporate and community settings, her approach is grounded, direct, and emotionally intelligent. This work invites presence, accountability, and a return to what disconnection has tried to erase.
Together we can build more connected and compassionate world, one where empathy is not just the concept, but a driving principle that shapes our collective destiny, where we know that empathy is never lost.
About Tammy
Tammy Triolo brings clarity to emotionally charged spaces by holding up a mirror to the cost of disconnection. Through scorecards, storytelling, and public dialogue, her work challenges what has been normalized and creates space for deeper self-awareness. With experience across corporate and community settings, her approach is grounded, direct, and emotionally intelligent. This work invites presence, accountability, and a return to what disconnection has tried to erase.
Together we can build more connected and compassionate world, one where empathy is not just the concept, but a driving principle that shapes our collective destiny, where we know that empathy is never lost.
The Empathy Gap
IT IS BLACK AND WHITE
The Empathy Gap examines how white supremacy has reshaped our emotional lives, eroding empathy, distorting connection, and normalizing emotional disconnection in ways many of us have never named. Through fifteen patterns, the book explores how empathy is suppressed, extracted, or denied both toward others and within ourselves. It invites readers to reflect on what supremacy has taught them not to feel, and offers a path toward reclaiming empathy as a daily, embodied practice.
Empathy: The Thread That Connects Us
Tammy Triolo, CEO of PCQ Consulting and creator of the Empathy Scorecard, shares how her early experiences in The Bahamas shaped her advocacy for empathy and domestic violence awareness in her Tedx Talk, Empathy: The Tread That Connects Us. She speaks to the power of empathy in action to disrupt cycles of harm and build connection across cultures. This talk invites us to lead with compassion and recognize the role of human connection in creating communities grounded in healing and prevention.
Resources & Support
Tammy’s offers language, structure, and support for people willing to slow down and look at what lives beneath the surface. Whether you are navigating this work on your own or holding space for others, you’ll find tools and guidance here to help you move with care, clarity, and responsibility.
The Empathy Score
A system is designed to make that practice visible. Through guided tools and emotional patterns, it helps you trace how empathy moves through your relationships, your choices, and your inner dialogue. The tools offer not just insight, but a rhythm for staying present and accountable. Whether you’re beginning with the scorecards, reading the book, or journaling through the guide, each part works together to shift awareness into action.
PCQ Consulting
Tammy’s consulting work is rooted in the belief that culture is shaped by how people feel, and whether those feelings are acknowledged or ignored. She works with organizations ready to move beyond performative policies and into honest, measurable change. Through assessments, leadership training, and one-on-one advisement, she helps teams build cultures where empathy isn’t performative, but a daily practice.
Empathy Scorecard
The Empathy Gap
PCQ Consulting